Friday, July 8, 2011

To the Mall or Not to the Mall.

I have observed a disturbing trend among our Vancouver 'Tween population.  While on its surface, it may not seem to be too much of a concern to the adults in the community, it illustrates a severe lack of resources for our underage children to be involved in community activities.  This trend is:  The mall. Located in the south end of our district, the Vancouver Mall is surrounded by a significant portion of Gaiser's population.  Frequently, during Story Slam Mondays, many of our students regale our Drama classes with tales of their exploits at the mall over the weekend.

These stories often begin with, "me and (the more people involved in the entourage the better) went to the mall.  When we were there we saw (insert pupil's name) and (insert other notable names... the more popular, the better)..."  Once the desired level of validation has been achieved, the stories begin.  They usually take two paths.  The first being what they witnessed, and the second being what they caused.

Witnessing activities tends to be one of the top activities of young teens at the mall.  Viewing criminal activities tends to be a top rated witnessing event.  Retelling the action packed events surrounding a crime in action and the ensuing dramatic capture is one that lights up the eyes of my preteen students.  The next most popular tale to tell is to embellish the antics of a known peer.  Telling tales about running into another student who was causing some sort of feral disruption is highly rated on the retale meter.  Students laugh and revel in name dropping and creating associations with the wayward activities that occur at the mall.

But by far the most popular Monday mall story is that of being "kicked out of the mall."  This story falls  under the causal path.  We listen to highlights of students who are walking into stores to try things on just to play dress up. We hear as students talk of looking for inappropriate things to tease their friends with.  We hear as students accuse others of stealing items from stores, throw food in the food court, scream from the balconies or dance in the stairwells.  Most of these activities end with students being "unfairly" accosted by security, and thrown out of the mall.  This is like a badge of honor.  The longer the banning from the mall the higher the honor.  Of course, indifference to consequence is essential.  A student must grow their story to the most inflated levels, but must not, by any means, be fazed by the consequences.  Too cool for the mall is the key to being respected and admired by your peers.

The mall is placed in a great location for many of our students.  It does serve as sort of a town square for many.  It houses community resources and entertainment for those who shop there, but the key word here is "shop".  The mall in a consumer driven locale designed specifically to drive people to spend.

Most of our students who live near the mall are dealing with higher mobility rates and a generally lower SES.  If a student lives by the mall it can generally be assumed that the child is living in a rental, spending approximately 1 hour a day on the bus for transportation to and from school, is on free or reduced lunch, is unable to participate in after school sports and programs due to their distance from the school and, as is often the case, from a broken home.  These are the children who are spending the majority of their off time at the mall, unsupervised. They are developing their own social hierarchy, which is leading them to view consumerism and disruptive and sometimes criminal behavior as not only desirable, but the norm.

Our south end students need some alternatives.  They need more options that will allow them to enter into activities with their groups of friends but still remain supervised.  They need to be able to explore age appropriate options with some supervision, but be able to enter in with empty pockets and no expectation that they spend money, either theirs or their parents.  While we do have some options for students to become athletically involved, like the Naydenov  Gymnastics Center, these options do cost money, and require students become physically active.  This just does not work for some of our students.  I am hoping that this site can help to facilitate some options for our students to be able to find alternatives to "Cruising the mall" in their spare time.  Any links, comments or suggestions will help to bring our children out of the mall and into our world.

6 comments:

  1. Since the students already seem to enjoy the mall, are in close proximity, and feel comfortable why not try starting an after school program there? I am sure the mail would be happy to accommodate a program in attempts to slow the delinquent behaviors.

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  2. That's a great point. I would love to see more guided preteen activities at the mall. It would definitely be in the mall's best interest to redirect potentially delinquent behaviors

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  3. Shanda, the mall in many urban and suburban areas has simply replaced the school in many rural areas. I grew up in a rural community. I taught in a rural community. The school was also the town library, it was where the cadets practiced, through its extra-curricular activities it was the main source of non-academic activities in the community. Even adults used to use the school for their weight loss program, the gym for weekly basketball or floor hockey leagues, as a place for town hall-style meetings. Basically it was used for just about everything except baseball in the summers and ice hockey or figure skating the rest of the year.

    It was the center of the community, the community hall if you will. Are schools in your area like that? Are there any places that have children-friendly activities that keep competitive hours to the mall that children can go to for a variety of things or simply just to hang out? I suspect there aren't, which is why the mall fills that void.

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  4. I can completely relate to your tales that students tell after the weekends. I live and teach in a small urban community and although our mall isn't the local hangout (it's a 20 minute drive for our students, many of whom take the city bus which takes even longer), we still deal with the blaise attitude from students about disruptive behaviors in public. Our local "hangout" is our newly remodeled teen floor of our public library. A lot of our students who don't have Internet access at home, frequent the library because of its downtown location and proximity to where they live. However, I all too often hear from students that they can't go to the library because they got kicked out for XX amount of days, AND it never seems to be a big deal to them.

    Now we do have a YMCA downtown that is in close proximity to our kids and a lot of them do hang out there and we have a community center that runs after school programs until 6 in the evening during the school year. Does your community offer anything like that? It may be something that could help keep them from getting kicked out of the mall.

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  5. When I worked in retail, one of the biggest targets were preteens and teenagers - mall rats, because of the value of retail sales. My previous job was display clothing, jewelry, and the latest hip hop song in the back ground for mall rats to listen to while shopping. When I started to handle the cash registers, I was flabbergasted on how teenagers have no problem spending $300 on a pair of sneakers on Mom n' Dad's credit card. When the parents didn't pick up their kids on time, the mall rats would make use of their time by doing "stare downs" at strangers, follow security guards on their routes, and leave hordes of clothes piled high in the changing room just for the attendant to fold and put back in its rightful place.

    I am not saying that every young person is a mall rat, but when Mom and Dad are not there, I am on edge waiting for the next group to create more work for the attendants.

    I think Luke said it best when the mall should consider the option of starting an after school program at the mall, not only does it teaches young adults how to behave in a social responsible way, but other concepts could be introduced to students such as "Retail Math", "Operations Management", or "Buzz Words for Literacy", just as an example. This would help students develop skill sets while learning (on the job).

    Christina

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  6. I think Luke has a good idea. I live in a very rural community and have all my life, where the school is indeed the hub. I have to drive 2 hours to go to a mall, and I have to say that I don't like seeing kids just hanging out all by themselves. I never let my older two kids go to the movies by themselves, because I saw how kids behaved when their parents weren't there and my kids weren't going to act like that! My husband said that when he was a kid that he and his friends would get together and they would come up with their own activities. In the winter they would go ice skating...someone would bring hot chocolate, some would gather wood for a fire, and others would bring brooms and they would sweep the snow off the ice, and then they would skate. They didn't have anyone to provide any kind of entertainment for them. In our community we have an after school program for the younger kids, and that seems to work OK for them, but kids still like to hang out and be "cool." We have lots of hunting and fishing here and a lot of the older kids like to do that...I'm totally clueless with what to do in urban areas!

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